The 3 C’s of Japanese: Cold, Confused & Constipated


It was one of the most stinging verbal slaps I’d ever received.

And I loved it.

To make a long story short, I was sitting at a café in Athens a couple of years back, in an attempt to combine pleasure with pain (Karate with vacation, yes, in that order), when my local contact – a real old-school Okinawa Karate/Kobudo lady – corrected my naïve attempt at initiating a turn in our discussion towards the difference(s) between Japanese Karate and Okinawan Karate.

(Okinawan) Karate

If I remember correctly, all I said was something like: “Well, considering the interesting differences between Okinawan Karate and Japanese…” and that’s about as far as I got on that sentence.

“NO! JESSE! STOP! STOP IT RIGHT THERE!” she suddenly screamed.

“Huh?” I replied, trying to hide my bafflement behind a cool smirk. “Stop? What do you mean ‘stop’? I was just talking about…” I tried to say, but she interrupted me again. “No! Yes, I know what you said. But it’s wrong. Because in Okinawa, there is no Okinawan Karate. There’s only [real] Karate, and Japanese Karate. There is no ‘Okinawan’ Karate. It’s just Karate!”

And I see if this might sound outlandish or uninteresting to some of you, but to me this was one of those moments where you really redefine your understanding of something. (Actually, when I think about it, I guess these kinds of moments are what I’m actively seeking twenty-four seven.)

Aah… I’ll never forget that day.

Anyways, looking past the obvious lesson in the difference of viewpoint regarding Karate (and Kobudo too) when comparing Okinawa with mainland Japan; is there a more universal lesson from this verbal slap to be learned for all of us, that immensely hot Greek day a couple of years ago?

Japanese Karate.


It is this; in order to reach a deeper understanding of Karate, one must have some understanding of the culture from where it comes.

The “cultural landscape”, to put it fancier.

That is to say, the Ryukyuan/Okinawan culture (of which the general Japanese culture/society is mostly identical today, though some older parts differ). And if you ask me, this is perhaps one of the most unexplored aspects of Karate out there, partly because it doesn’t seem that important (but it is! What do you think got me to all these numerous crazy secret Karate spots in Okinawa in the first place?!), but mainly because it is so hard to grasp if you have no personal experience of it.

It’s kind of like weightlifting. You can’t suddenly deadlift 500 pounds by reading about it in a book, right? You need to do it yourself.

But… though you can’t get full understanding through the written medium, you can always learn details and pointers!



So, to give you a swift kick in the ass on the road of Karate enlightenment, here’s what I’ve decided to share with you today: “The 3 C’s of the Japanese Language”. As taught to me by a very wise man, many moons ago.

Because, if there’s one thing that’s guaranteed to get you into the metaphorical pants of any Okinawan/Japanese Karate master, it’s definitely flashing your Japanese lingo skills.

And the good thing is, you don’t even need to be able to speak Japanese to use this. You can say whatever you want.

It’s all about acting.

So sit down, open your mind and take notes.

Here’s what you need to know about becoming a master in manipulating the Japanese language in order to open the gates of Karate knowledge.

The 3 C’s of Japanese

#1: Cold

Okay, so the first thing you need to learn is how to act cold.

Cold as in emotionless, that is.

(Think corpse, or old stone-deaf librarian).

You see, unless you want to come across as an obvious gaijin ignoramus, public display of true emotions is considered a big taboo in the Japanese society. Remember “The Smile“? Yeah. That was just the beginning.

So what you need to do right now is bring out your inner Fedor Emilianenko, and just let that no-nonsense, braindead, dead-fish-like coldness out there. You literally need to make dr. Frankensteins monster seem like a cool dude to party with, when compared to you.

Important pointers:

  • Gloomy eyes (like a dead frog)
  • Super neutral facial expression (there’s that Fedor again!)
  • No excessive movements with your arms whatsoever (Italians beware!)
  • Very small lip movements (imagine a gold fish).

To test your coldness skills, try saying a simple word like “arigato” (are-ee-gaw-toeh, meaning “thanks”) to yourself a couple of times, keeping in mind the important points above. Gradually increase the amount of coldness to really experience the difference in Japaneseness.

Here’s some additional inspiration:

That was an interview with a Japanese electro pop band btw.

Cold as ice.

#2: Confused

So, you’ve got that coldness down?


Now you need to combine it with the next ingredient, which happens to be… confusion.

“What? Who? Me? When? Now? Where? Here? Why?” These are the kind of thought patterns you must nurture like your own freaky Japanese child in order to truly master the art of confusion.

To put it bluntly, your entire being must constantly convey the message that you are never certain of anything.

At all.

You must appear so confused that, in fact, you barely don’t even know your own name. The reason is that to be certain of something is to be a little bit better than everyone else, and in a society that prides itself on “hammering down the [human] nail that protrudes”, looking a little bit smarter than everyone else is a bad move.

So get that subtle confusion juice flowing.

Important points:

  • Never fix your gaze on anything. Your eyes must constantly be looking around, with a crack-dealer-at-the-corner-esque feeling.
  • (Mis)use questions constantly. Some good ones are “nani?” (what?), “dare?” (who?), “doko?” (where?), and “doushite?” ( how come?). These must become standard weapons of your linguistic arsenal.
  • Blink. A. Lot.

Also, perhaps most importantly, to truly cut to the core when it comes to appearing confused:

  • Use filler words. If you’ve ever spoken to a Japanese person, you will undoubtedly have heard “anooo…”, “etooo…” and other common fillers in every other sentence. These are equivalent to our English “ummm…” and “weeell…”, and will definitely do the trick when you need to add that finishing touch of indecisiveness to your next conversation.

To test your confusion skills, try saying “arigato” (are-ee-gaw-toeh) again to yourself, keeping in mind the important points above, as well as being cold at the same time. Becomes a bit harder, right?

Here’s an everyday examples of subtle confusion, for inspiration:

Got it?


#3: Constipated

Okay, okay, okay, okay… Okay.


You feel like you’ve done it all. To use an Arnold Schwarzenegger metaphor, you’ve managed to successfully combine the coldness of The Terminator with the confusion of The Governator. Japanese Karate masters all over the world are slowly beginning to trust you and almost accept you as one of their own…


Because one thing is still missing.

It’s time for you to kick it up a notch.

Enter constipation.

(For you non-English speaking Karate nerds, “constipated” basically means that you have some… umm… “problems” with your stomach, like… of the “harder” kind, you know?)

So, what you need to do now is to unify coldness, confusion and constipation in a (kind of pervert when I think about it) holy trinity of Japaneseness, to once and for all rid your Japanese friends of any last doubts they might still have lingering in their minds about your non-gaijinness.

So here’s what you need to do: Act as if you have eaten something really weird and are now awfully constipated.

While remembering to keep it cold and confused at all times.

Important advice:

  • Forcefully squeeze your butt cheeks together in uneven intervals during conversation in order to send subtle messages of constipation through subconscious twitching in your fascial muscles.
  • Focus on getting gradually more and more red in the face as conversation progresses. You need to look very uncomfortable with the whole discussion, frankly.
  • Keep still. Constipated people avoid unnecessary movements, lest “all falls down” to paraphrase Kanye West.

To test your constipation skills, try saying “arigato” (are-ee-gaw-toeh) a third time loudly now, to really get the feel for this point. Really feeeeel the constipation running through you. And remember to keep the lessons you learned from cold and confused intact.

Here’s some additional, agonizing, inspiration.

It’s all in the eyebrows…



That was “The 3 C’s of Japanese”.

You are now officially entitled to extract whatever enigmatic Karate secrets you need from any Japanese master in the world, no matter what language you speak as long as you don’t stray from the path of the Triple C.

Cold, confused, constipated.

It’s all in the details.


  • karate gear
    Thanks for sharing this AHA moment, it was also one of those for me!
  • diego romero
    you said 'ass'! btw, who's that on the first pic? second one is ohtsuka, right?
    • Ass? OMFG! Where!? It's Nagamine on the first pic :)
      • diego romero
        BEHIND YOU! IN YOUR PANTS! cheers. nice article btw. i'm also officially the least japanese person ever.
        • Hey, at least you got the 'takasa' = height! ;)
          • diego romero
            as well as those 5 USD i owe you, you shall receive a swift zutsuki to the kinteki upon our theoretical IRL meeting. *trains high-jumping skills in anticipation*
  • Fatih Ince
    Hey Jesse-san, Thanks for the mysterious article. By the way, my mind is constipated today.
  • Daniel
    "Constipated"! It's exactly the term I have been looking for to describe that strange (to me) way to emit sounds! Question for you. I've recently taken up the study of Xin Yi Liu He Quan (while still practicing karate) and the mantra is: no contraction. No stop. Techniques flow from one another without interruption. Wondering why on the contrary it's so common in karate to see the idea of kime = body contraction and a huge amount of stiffness (I'm remembering in this moment that Asai Tetsuhiko Sensei used to refer at this - at least this is what I read in some interview - as "constipated karate", i.e. same term) , I've come up with the funny answer that this might even be linked to this continuous constipation suggested by the way sounds are produced. Is this idea totally absurd? :)
  • Francis
    From a Quebecer point of view, this also apply to the frenchmen

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